Recently I got in in touch online with a classic friend whom i will be genuinely excited to be reconnecting with after a lot more than ten years. I knew him whenever we had been both in our late teenagers. He had been fun to be around, however a mutual (male) friend described him as “needy. ” I happened to be happy to listen to that this attribute of his was not simply in my own mind, and that he made this impression on guys too. He previously in this way of earning you’re feeling actually bad whenever you stated no to him; it is not that he would stress you, precisely, but their dissatisfaction would be this entity that lived floating around between both you and him.